What traditions have you not kept that your parents had?
Religion.
I received the best education my parents could offer me—rooted in science, morality, and values. From them, I inherited the finest example of what it means to be a parent—not only in personal matters, but also in academic and professional integrity. And it’s that example I strive to pass on to my children every single day.
I was instilled with a deep religious devotion, typical of older generations, where society blurred the line—often dangerously—between politics and faith. Like many children of my generation, I was taught that God could only be reached through tradition, sacred texts, myths, and legends—without room for interpretation, at least not one different from what parents or civil authorities deemed acceptable. That misguided approach—well-intentioned but fundamentally flawed—was simply the only way that generation knew to seek God.
A person’s morality and virtue were judged by whether or not they practiced the dominant religion. Those who didn’t align with religious doctrine were socially branded as immoral, heretical, and unworthy of respect.
This led me to a deep personal crisis. I turned away from God—not because of disbelief, but because my rebellion was directed at the harsh religious authoritarianism that deeply harms a child’s spiritual growth. Today, midway through my life, I no longer practice any religion, yet I carry God profoundly within my heart. Since rediscovering my faith, my life has changed entirely.
I don’t need the promise of an eternal paradise to be a good person, nor do I require the fear of eternal fire to guide my steps. I’ve learned that both heaven and hell are experiences we live here on Earth. Which one we inhabit depends on our daily choice to be grateful and pursue happiness.
I am free—and in my freedom, I choose every day to become the best human being I can be.
My parents, whom I love dearly, remain as traditionalist as ever—and I have nothing to hold against them. As parents, we do our best with the tools we have, always wanting what’s best for our children—even when some of our methods may be mistaken.


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